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September 25, 2018

Dear friends,

We spend so much of our lives talking to each other, but how much are we simply running on automatic—relying on old habits and hoping for the best? Are we able to truly hear others and speak our mind in a clear and kind way, without needing to get defensive or go on the attack?

The techniques in my friend Oren Sofer’s new book Say What You Mean will help you to:

  • Feel confident during conversation
  • Stay focused on what really matters in an interaction
  • Listen for the authentic concerns behind what others say
  • Reduce anxiety before and during difficult conversations
  • Find nourishment in day-to-day interactions

“With clarity and great insight, Oren Jay Sofer offers teachings and practices that train us to speak and listen with presence, courage and an open heart.”  
— Tara Brach, author of True Refuge and Radical Acceptance

“This tremendous book addresses one of the biggest challenges in any relationship: how to combine heart with strength, compassion with assertiveness. If I had just one book to recommend about interpersonal communication, it would be this one.” 
— Rick Hanson, PhD author of Hardwiring Happiness

When you pre-order his book, you’ll also receive:
– Free access to Oren’s courses on 10% Happier
– 12-part email series on communication
– Bonus guided meditations
– Advance download of first chapter

With appreciation,

Sean Fargo
Founder, Mindfulness Exercises
1-415-488-KIND
Skype: seanfargo

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FREE MINDFULNESS EXERCISES FOR COMMUNICATION:

PERFORMANCE IMPROVEMENT: A MUTUAL LEARNING CONVERSATION (video)

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HOW TO HAVE DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS (video)

HOW TO REALLY LISTEN IN A CONVERSATION (worksheet)

TIMING YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS TO CONVERSATIONS (worksheet)

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About the author 

Sean Fargo is a mindfulness teacher and founder of Mindfulness Exercises, a global platform offering evidence‑based resources and teacher certification. A former Buddhist monk in the Thai Theravada tradition, he bridges contemplative wisdom with modern psychology to make mindfulness practical at work and in life. Sean has taught alongside Jack Kornfield and supported leaders at organizations such as Reddit, PG&E, and DocuSign. Through online trainings, guided meditations, and mentorship, he has helped thousands of educators, clinicians, and coaches bring mindfulness to diverse communities. Sean’s mission is simple and ambitious: expand access to authentic, science‑informed practice while cultivating compassion, clarity, and resilience. Today, Mindfulness Exercises serves millions with free and premium tools, empowering individuals and teams to lead with presence and purpose.

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