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    People Crave Presence, Not More Content

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    Sean FargoPublished February 26, 2026 · Updated October 21, 2026 · 5 min read
    People Crave Presence, Not More Content

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    Listen for presence, then practice it in one relationship.

    What people are really asking for when they ask for your attention — and the one conversation you could bring more of it to.

    We are drowning in information.

    Podcasts, reels, AI-generated insights, productivity hacks, self-help books, meditation apps — there is more content available than at any other time in human history. People don’t want more content. They crave presence.

    In this live community session recorded for the Mindfulness Exercises podcast, Sean Fargo, a former Buddhist monk who founded Mindfulness Exercises, says he is hearing that demand for human mindfulness teachers will keep increasing because people are starving for real human connection. He talks about personal stories, embodiment, human walkers and a family cuddle couch, and answers a participant who asks whether there is market data behind the trend.

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    Episode Overview:

    In This Episode, We Explore:

    • The rising demand for human-led mindfulness experiences
    • Whether there is market data behind that demand
    • Embodiment: is awareness head-based, heart-based, or fully embodied?
    • Loneliness, “human walkers,” and a participant’s World Health Organization figures
    • The contrast between an internet and AI flood of teachings and human connection
    • A family cuddle couch
    • Mindfulness in yoga studios, Reiki centers, massage therapy, business coaching and schools
    • A head, heart and body check-in, and listening to the breath on a noisy day

    Key Takeaway: Sean says people want to be seen and heard, and that mindfulness teachers typically offer a higher quality of presence and connection.

    Show Notes:

    The Rising Demand for Human-Led Mindfulness

    Sean says he is hearing more and more that the demand for human mindfulness teachers will skyrocket or keep increasing. For those teaching one-on-one or in groups, in person or online, he expects more interest in practicing together and learning from a real person who knows what it is like to be human in 2026.

    Part of the reason, he says, is that the internet and AI are flooding everyone with a quantity of teachings. That is a blessing, since methods and practices are far easier to find than 20 or 50 years ago, and because isolation is increasing, so is demand for human connection.

    A participant who hopes to work as a meditation teacher asks what market data supports this. Sean says he has not seen specific data recently, recalls seeing a steep upward curve in demand for mindfulness and meditation teachers a few years ago, suggests searching for it, and says he will try to include empirical data in an upcoming Mindful Musings newsletter.

    From Head Knowledge to Embodied Awareness

    The guided meditation in this session invited participants to notice whether awareness feels head-based, heart-based or fully embodied. Sean says there is no right or wrong; it is an invitation to see whether awareness comes from one place or feels integrated.

    We can focus on one part of the body, he says, and also ask whether we can bring gentle awareness through the whole body so we are not always defaulting to the same location. Some very senior mindfulness teachers say embodiment is a worthwhile goal for mindfulness: embodying our own essence rather than being a sterile copy of what we think we should be.

    Loneliness, Paid Companionship, and Global Signals

    Sean recalls a talk by Gary Vaynerchuk, whom he describes as a media figure who often senses where attention goes next, about a business opportunity in people wanting others to take them on walks, almost like a dog walker but a human walker. Sean says he may not be phrasing it quite as Vaynerchuk did.

    His reading is that many people, perhaps especially over 50, are empty nesters or divorced and working online, with friends who are text or social media friends. They may want an excuse to be around a person, and it is easier to hire someone for a walk than to find the courage to make new friends at the farmer’s market.

    One participant adds that, as they recall it, World Health Organization data shows mental health challenges rising globally, with more than a billion people possibly needing mental health support, and says teachers should prepare to help.

    AI Abundance vs. Embodied Connection

    Sean says people want to be seen and heard. Mindfulness teachers typically offer a higher quality of presence and connection, he says, and he does not mean that to sound righteous or judgmental. It is that we are present for each other rather than focused on something else. He adds that being entertained in a crowd has value too.

    The Power of Personal Story

    Sean says we need people from all walks of life in the role of inviting presence, such as mothers teaching mindfulness for mothering and people with chronic pain describing how they use mindfulness to find ease. He asks teachers not to teach in a cookie-cutter way, but to be personal and share authentically, even though it is hard.

    In his experience, personal stories, teachings and examples can sink in faster and more deeply. Even eye contact, kind eyes or a soft touch is healing in itself, he says, and communities like this one are invaluable.

    Family Co-Regulation: The “Cuddle Couch” Image

    Sean describes an oversized couch in his family’s small living room, where all of them can lie down together, as one of the best investments they have made. He says he loves inviting family to sit or lie on different parts of it, feeling heartbeats and skin temperature, hearing each other breathe, and sensing into the nervous system and the language of bodies. He suggests it could make a good book: the power of cuddle couches.

    Integrating Mindfulness with Yoga and Healing Arts

    Sean says it is beautiful to see mindfulness integrating more with yoga studios, Reiki centers, massage therapy and business coaching. A participant says mindfulness now seems to show up in every area. Sean adds that his six-year-old daughter has mindfulness in her classroom and after school, with breathing tools and practices for feeling the body and noticing emotions. Embodiment is shared as the new theme for 2026.

    Simple Breath Practices for Busy, Loud Days

    Two things from this session you can try anytime:

    1. Head, Heart, Body Check-In
    • Is my awareness head-based?
    • Is it heart-based?
    • Does it feel fully embodied, or integrated?

    There is no right or wrong, Sean says. The invitation is to notice, and to look for balance.

    2. Listening to the Breath

    One participant says that during the session, with leaves blowing, someone cleaning up and a plane overhead, listening to the air coming in through the nostrils helped them calm down.

    Why This Matters Now

    Sean says personal stories, eye contact and presence make a strong impression, and that people from every walk of life can bring their own experience of the challenges and joys of being human.

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    Transcript

    Show transcript· 10 min read

    <a class="no-underline" href="#humans-teaching-mindfulness">Humans Teaching Mindfulness</a>

    Speaker 1 · 0:00Welcome everyone. Thank you for being here. I'm hearing more and more that the demand for human mindfulness teachers will skyrocket or continue increasing because people are starving for real human connection. For those of us who are engaged with teaching one-on-one groups, either in person or online, I think we will be finding more interest in people wanting to be with others to practice together, to learn from a real person who knows what it's like to be human and go through the challenges of being human in 2026. And we need people from all walks of life in these roles of inviting presence, mothers teaching mindfulness for mothering in stages of life, people with chronic pain talking about how they use mindfulness to find ease. Every single walk of life, we want examples of humans going through the challenges and the joys of navigating this vulnerable experience of life and not to teach in a cookie cutter way for everyone, but to be personal and to share authentically. It's hard. And here's some things that help me. These personal stories, personal teachings and examples can really sink in faster and more deeply. And even just eye contact alone, just kind eyes or a soft touch is itself so healing. And it's these types of experiences that are very, very powerful. And communities like this are invaluable. Certified human, yes. Absolutely.

    Speaker 2 · 2:28I have a question.

    <a class="no-underline" href="#personal-stories-and-presence">Personal Stories And Presence</a>

    Speaker 2 · 2:30When you were just talking about the demand for human mindfulness teachers that it'll likely skyrocket. I can't remember exactly what you said, but it sounded like you've heard it at a lot of places or something like that. I'm wondering, maybe through an email later, because you probably don't know off the top of your head, but I'm wondering what are some of the sources? Like, is there market data out there to look at, or are there articles out there to look at?

    Speaker 1 · 2:56Great question. I have not seen any, but I'm just gonna do a quick Yeah.

    Speaker 2 · 3:02I definitely intuitively that makes so much sense. But I've actually been doing some work. I live in New York, so like I went to the business library within the New York Public Library System to kind of do an actual look at what the market data might be, and I couldn't find the data that would like support my intuition. And it seems so I don't know, it seems like such an obvious thing. But anyway, I didn't mean to put you on the spot, but I was just curious about that.

    Speaker 1 · 3:29Yeah, that's a great question. I want to look into that and find something that I could point to other than what I've heard. I know my wife, she really feels strongly about this, but I saw a talk from Gary Vaynerchuk, who's this kind of like a media icon influencer. He's made a name for himself over the last 10 years of sensing into what's next of market trends and where people's attention are going to go next. He's often correct. I don't believe everything he says, and I think that he likes hearing himself talk sometimes. But he said something recently that there's a big business opportunity like unfolding right now for people wanting other people to take them on walks. Almost like a dog walker. There's like a human walker. I don't think I'm phrasing it quite the way he phrased it, but he was making a point that there's so many humans, especially I think humans over 50, where maybe they've raised their family, they're empty nesters, maybe they're divorced, working online, their friends are text friends or social media friends. I kind of want an excuse to be around a person, and it's easier to hire someone to go for a walk with than it is to have the courage to make new friends at the farmer's market, for example.

    Speaker 2 · 5:08I guess the context of my question was like for me, I'm not a therapist, I'm not a yoga teacher, and I'd like to work as a meditation teacher. So without having those other two foundations, having some sort of data or something to point to, it feels like it would help me be able to kind of gently promote the business better. Like it has implications for trying to do this as a living, potentially. So anyway, I just felt like I had to add that.

    Speaker 1 · 5:40I have seen market data, I think a few years ago, about the demand for mindfulness and meditation teachers, and it was a steep curve up. And you can do like a simple Google search or ironically, AI search for demand for human mindfulness teachers, demand for human meditation teachers. Part of the rationale is that the internet and AI is just flooding everyone with a quantity

    <a class="no-underline" href="#is-there-market-data">Is There Market Data</a>

    Speaker 1 · 6:10of teachings, that it's easier to find teachings than it ever has been, which is a blessing in the sense that we can find methods and practices that would have been much harder to find 50 years ago, 20 years ago. And because there's an increasing isolation, there's uh increasing demand for antidotes to that, which is human connection, and so especially with mindfulness teachers in the sense that there's typically a higher quality of presence, typically a higher quality of connection. I don't mean to sound righteous or judgmental, but that's kind of the point is that we're present for each other rather than focused on something else. Not to say that being entertained in a crowd isn't worthy. I think there's value in that too. But we do want to be seen, to be heard. The short answer is that I don't have something specific to point to right now, but uh I think maybe in my next five mindful musings newsletter, I'll try to include some empirical data on that.

    Speaker 2 · 7:24That would be awesome. I really appreciate your thoughts on this stuff.

    Speaker 1 · 7:28Yeah. Thank you for your question. Michelle shared embodiment as the new theme for 2026. This practice will help many people. Yeah. It's beautiful to see mindfulness really integrating more and more with more yoga studios, Reiki centers, massage therapy, a lot of even business coaching and all sorts of things.

    Speaker 3 · 7:56Mindfulness is like stuck in all areas. I see it now a lot.

    Speaker 1 · 8:01My six-year-old daughter has mindfulness in her classroom and after school. It's not me introducing it, it's already there, and they have like breathing tools and feeling their bodies and noticing emotions, and it's much more prevalent now. And that's why during the guided meditation today, there was an invitation for us to notice. Is our awareness feeling head-based right now? Heart-based, fully embodied. There's not like a right or wrong, but sometimes our awareness or our mindfulness can feel like it's very head-based, like we're relating to everything from here. Sometimes it might feel like it's from the heart. Sometimes it feels embodied. And so there's an invitation for us to kind of notice is there a place from which we're being aware or does it feel integrated? And I didn't say it in the meditation, but there's this very gentle invitation to find a nice balance overall. So we can focus in on a certain part of the body, and maybe there's a ton of awareness in my right shoulder or the nostrils as I breathe, or here, or in my right baby toe before it goes to the market.

    <a class="no-underline" href="#human-walkers-and-loneliness">Human Walkers And Loneliness</a>

    Speaker 1 · 9:30And can I integrate this gentle awareness throughout my whole being or find a balance in other areas so that we're not always sort of defaulting to the same location or radius. Some very senior mindfulness teachers will say that a very worthwhile goal for mindfulness is embodiment and not to be a sterile human or a copy of human or what you think we should be, but rather like embodying our own essence, our spirit, our life, our joy, our soul, you know, embodying Michelle Distant or whatever we call ourselves. Like what did our mom or dad or caregiver call us when we were five? One of the best investments we've ever made was a cuddle couch. We got this like oversized couch that has no place in our like really small living room. No interior designer would ever recommend this big couch for our small home. This big couch where like all of us can just lay down on it together. It's like my favorite thing. I love just laying down or sitting down on the couch and inviting space for family or or people just to kind of sit there with me, maybe cuddle, maybe sit next to us, or just lay down on different parts of it and just kinda be together. Feeling heartbeats, skin temperature, hearing each other breathe, kind of sensing into nervous system, hear whatever comes up, sensing into the language of bodies. Could be a good book idea, like the power of cuddle couches. If anyone would like to share any requests, questions, comments, wins, anything at all. Dominique?

    Speaker 4 · 12:02I just want to share some data with you, Dorothy. I was in another session, I forgot where I went to, but there's a huge data with the Who World Health Organization that mental health is really rising globally. The number of people suffering from physical and mental health in general could be around about 3 billion people. So we have about 8 billion people in this world. So over 1 billion is already in soaring, needing mental support. It goes to show that

    <a class="no-underline" href="#promoting-a-teaching-practice">Promoting A Teaching Practice</a>

    Speaker 4 · 12:40our role to support that what Shaman and everyone are saying, that we need to prepare to help and assist others coming up and what's going on. So I hope if you look into who it might help with some data. Also, Sean, thank you so much for supporting us, having this space for us is so needed. I really had a hard time focusing today at the beginning, as always. Lots of things going on, end of the year and beginning of the year. There's a need to like, oh, what's your resolution? What are you gonna do this year different from next year? And oh, I don't have one. And I feel like, oh my gosh, I'm behind, or I don't know what I'm doing. I'm lost for 2026. But today really helps me to bring alignment and just being is enough. Just breathing and just being in soon as and just listening to my breath really helps me calm down because it was like leaves blowing, someone's cleaning up, the plane is zooming down as we're meditating. And you know, through it, I just really hear my breath, and I'm very grateful for that. It's just the air coming in through the nostril, and it really's calm me. It's so simple. So thank you for having space for us. Yeah, yeah.

    Speaker 1 · 14:00Thank you, Dominique. We all need these reminders. Oh, yeah, it's all just right here.

    Speaker 2 · 14:07Also, toward the end of last year, to only like within the past month or two, I think that Rhonda McGee and John Cabot Zinn, and maybe other people, talked in front of the United Nations about mindfulness. I think the UN adopted something related that was like an outgrowth of that. I just don't know the details, but that seems really apropos and kind of the big deal.

    Speaker 1 · 14:32Oh, I hadn't heard that. Thanks for sharing that.

    Speaker 2 · 14:35Yeah. I'll try to find more information on it. I can forward it to you.

    Speaker 1 · 14:40Great. I interviewed Rhonda for our podcast. I'll share a link for people not aware of Rhonda. That's exciting. Hopefully the United Nations does something with that. Yeah. Hopefully it's not uh window dressing or or anything. It's really cool.

    Speaker 2 · 15:00If I can't post it in this chat, then I'm Sean, I'll email you the information I can find.

    Speaker 1 · 15:06Thanks.

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