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October 3, 2016

Going cold on our partners is often a sign not that we have stopped caring, but that we are – somewhere deep down – furious or hurt. Watch this video.

Going cold on our partners is often a sign not that we have stopped caring, but that we are – somewhere deep down – furious or hurt.

“The story of the path to coldness in love is well known. We start off full of affection for one another and then – with time – feelings fade. We start prioritizing work; we check our phones while they’re speaking; we don’t especially want to hear how their day went…”

Further Reading: 8 Mindfulness Exercises for Love and Compassion

There are many different mindfulness exercises online that can be explored in relation to love and compassion. However, this simple heart-centered practice is a great grounding meditation. It can be practiced without any additional tools and without requiring an extended period of time. You can practice this mindfulness exercise anywhere, bringing yourself into a comfortable seated position and closing your eyes as it feels safe to do so.

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About the author 

Sean Fargo is a mindfulness teacher and founder of Mindfulness Exercises, a global platform offering evidence‑based resources and teacher certification. A former Buddhist monk in the Thai Theravada tradition, he bridges contemplative wisdom with modern psychology to make mindfulness practical at work and in life. Sean has taught alongside Jack Kornfield and supported leaders at organizations such as Reddit, PG&E, and DocuSign. Through online trainings, guided meditations, and mentorship, he has helped thousands of educators, clinicians, and coaches bring mindfulness to diverse communities. Sean’s mission is simple and ambitious: expand access to authentic, science‑informed practice while cultivating compassion, clarity, and resilience. Today, Mindfulness Exercises serves millions with free and premium tools, empowering individuals and teams to lead with presence and purpose.

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