For many people, meditation begins with frustration.
You sit down, close your eyes, take a breath… and immediately your mind races toward grocery lists, old conversations, deadlines, regrets, and imaginary futures. Within seconds, it can feel like you’ve failed.
According to Susan Piver, a Buddhist teacher and author who founded the Open Heart Project, that experience is not failure. It is the practice.
In this session, hosted by Sean Fargo, Piver explains Shamatha Vipassana, a mindfulness-awareness meditation from the Buddhist tradition she teaches. She translates shamatha as calm abiding, placing your attention where you want it and bringing it back when it strays, and vipassana as insight, which she says shows up as awareness. She says mindfulness is something you work at, while awareness expands on its own. She also gives practical advice for teaching meditation, such as keeping the instruction very simple, and names the first of three common misconceptions she has seen: that you have to stop thinking. The instruction she gives is short:
Notice where your attention has gone, and gently return.
Again and again.
For anyone who has struggled with meditation, doubted themselves, or wondered whether mindfulness works for busy minds, Piver’s view is that there is no off switch for thoughts, and that what matters is practicing the coming back.


