This worksheet is a contemplative exercise for finding your purpose, identifying the intentions that serve it, examining them honestly, and acting with your purpose in mind. Being aware of our real intentions lets us take responsibility for the consequences of our actions and act with good intentions.
How to practice
- Sit in a relaxed but alert posture, back straight without straining. Meditate quietly on the breath and center yourself in the body.
- Imagine coming to the end of your life, not in a frightening way but as if you have just finished an autobiography and are considering its message. Consider your values and your successes. With understanding for your own humanity, ask how you could have lived those values better, and what the future you would say to the present you about your meaning and purpose.
- Coming out of this state with as much compassion for yourself as possible, write down your life’s purpose. Beneath it, list core values that reflect it, and use these values as intentions. Then list concrete actions that realize them. Your purpose does not need to be grand; it could be to be the best life partner and parent you can be.
- Affirm these core values by explaining your purpose, values, and plans out loud, in a mirror or to a friend who simply listens.
- Standing, come into full awareness of your body. Bring to mind one intention, then what may stand in its way, and the decision to act in spite of it. Consider the other side of the question fairly, and ask whether the intention truly serves the good of all. When you are sure, decide on your first step.
Where the idea comes from
Wise intention (sometimes translated right intention) is the second factor of the Buddhist Eightfold Path, and the Buddha taught that speaking and acting from a clear mind leads to happiness and from a clouded mind leads to suffering. Philosophers from Aristotle to Kant also wrote about how intention links actions and results. The phrase “the road to hell is paved with good intentions” is a reminder to look at the root of an intention, not just its surface.


