James Baraz shares a story about the Buddha and the 5 supports for practice he gave to a monk whose mind is not completely settled to deepen the practice.
Supports for Practice, by James Baraz
About James Baraz:
James has been a meditation teacher since 1978.
He is creator and teacher of the Awakening Joy course (since 2003).
He leads retreats, workshops and classes in U.S and abroad.
Co-founding Teacher of Spirit Rock Meditation Center in Woodacre, CA.
Co-author of Awakening Joy, the book based on the course(with Shoshana Alexander).
He is a Guiding Teacher for One Earth Sangha, a website devoted to expressing a Buddhist response to Climate Change.
James lives in Berkeley, California with his wife, Jane. He has two sons and three grandchildren.
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So, this is always, for me a poignant time in the retreat. This is the last evening that weβll all be together in this configuration after supporting each other, spending a month practicing internally and relating externally in the most unique kind of way. Just supporting each other and growing and waking up in opening the heart. And, as itβs said, everything that arises passes away. So, I just want to take a moment to acknowledge and appreciate our unique configuration for this month. And all the sincerity that each of you has brought to our practice and supporting each other, itβs such a privilege to witness and support you.
So, I want to share something that hopefully will be appropriate to those who are leaving and those who are continuing for another month. I hope that will happen.
At first day, I want to start with a contemporary prayer that maybe some of you have heard from ___, but since I got a greeting card with it, on it. So, once itβs on a greeting card, you know, itβs really made it. It says, βDear God, so far, today, Iβve done okay. I havenβt gossip or lost my temper. I havenβt been crabby, mean, nasty, selfish, bitchy, or over-indulgent, and Iβm very grateful for that. But dear God, in a few minutes, Iβm going to get out of bed. And then, Iβm probably going to need a lot more help. Amen.β
With the best of intentions and sincere aspiration and practicing for days, weeks, a month or two, years, we find that until weβre fully awakened, we are in process of learning and waking up, and it can be a humbling process, and it can be, and hopefully is a very exciting process no matter what upβs and downβs one goes through.
So, I thought first, Iβd start the talk with a discourse of, by the Buddha, of the Buddhist telling the story of somebody who was certainly not fully cooked, and who was actually new to practice and, but very, very sincere in this practice. And the advice that the Buddha has for him and the people who are still developing their practice, not yet, or ___, or once returners as many of his disciplines are. So, ___ all you are ___ are non-returners, you can just kind of disregard this part. Everybody else, you might find this interesting.
This is called the Meghiya Sutta. M-E-G-H-I-Y-A. Meghiya. Meghiya was this monk who had newly joined the order and through, I would say amazing good karma, was the Buddhist attendant as he was the two of them were travelling around in a forest to be joined at a later time by other monastics. And this one morning, Meghiya goes for ___ round and on his way, on his way back home, he sees this mango grove, and he says, βWow! What a great place to practice.β You know, itβs like, say, he was wandering the hills of ___ and all of a sudden came to Spirit Rock, you know, βWow, this is a good place to practice.β Well, thereβs always this perfect mango grove, and he really wanted to get on with it. He had great spiritual intention and urgency. So, he says to the Buddha, βI found this really great spot to practice. Can I go and practice?β And the Buddha knows, senses that this guy is pretty inexperienced and it might not be ready to do a self-retreat for a while. So he says in his kind way, βWhy donβt you wait Meghiya? You know, Iβm here all alone, why donβt you just keep me in company as my attendant?β Itβs a nice way of saying, getting the point across. But Meghiya says, βYou know, I really want to go practice. Please, can I go practice?β asked him the second time. You can hear whatβs coming, right? Again, βIβm here all alone in the forest. The others will be coming in sometime. Just keep me in company if you feel like it.β And then Meghiya has the, I think this is a Pali word, ___, something like that. The nerve and the guts to say, βLook, oh Lord, you have done whatβs needed to be done. I, still havenβt. Please, let me go practice.β So, the Buddha as he usually did, third time around, third time is a charm said, βMeghiya, now it is the time and do as you see fit. Go.β So, Meghiya goes, has his self-retreat. He probably didnβt have a ___, but had his exciting gear and was ready to sit at the ___ of the tree, and he says, let me quote it from the ___. He says, βNow, while vulnerable Meghiya was staying in the mango grove, he was, for the most part, assailed by these three kinds of unskillful thoughts. Thoughts of sensed desire. Thoughts of ill will. And thoughts of doing harm. Thoughts of cruelty. Sound familiar, you know? And the fourth occurred to him. βHow amazing! How astounding! Even though it was through faith that I went forth from home to the homeless life. Still, Iβm overpowered by these three kinds of unskillful thoughtsβthoughts of sensed desire, thoughts of ill will, thoughts of doing harm.β So, he goes back to the Buddha after a while, he tries to hang out with it for a while. And then, just gets to be too much, then goes back to the Buddha. And, he says, something like, βYouβll never guess what happened to me.β And the Buddha says, βYeah, this can happen sometimes when youβre not fully mature. You know, the mind can assail and create problems.β And thatβs when he gives him five (5) supports for practice when the mind isnβt completely settled. Five other aspects to deepen our practice. And this is both for people going home, or also there can be the ___ for people who are staying here as well. So, the first of these, and these are probably not going to be new to you.
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