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    Ann VrlakPublished June 25, 2016 · Updated March 28, 2024 · 2 min read

    Self-compassion

    Pause with warmth before trying to fix anything.

    This page includes a full audio series. The new guide helps visitors choose a listening path and continue into related healing practices.

    Guided meditation downloads

    Series

    Listen: Self-Compassion Pause audio series

    Self-compassion practices in different lengths plus long-form dharma teachings — The Voice of A Good Friend invites the same warmth, patience, and steady kindness you'd offer a close friend; Self-Compassion Meditation is an extended practice for letting that kindness sink in over a longer sit; Compassion Meditation is a longer practice for letting the heart soften into both your own pain and the pain of others; Self-Compassion (Tara Brach) is a long-form retreat-style teaching on the radical act of meeting yourself with care; Rain of Compassion (Tara Brach) is a guided meditation in her signature RAIN practice for letting compassion soak into the hardest places; Tonglen (Tara Brach) is a Tibetan compassion practice for breathing in suffering and breathing out relief.

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    Tracklist
    1. 01The Voice of A Good Friend — Guided Meditation by Sean Fargo
    2. 02Self-Compassion Meditation — Guided Meditation by Sean Fargo
    3. 03Compassion Meditation — Guided Meditation by Sean Fargo
    4. 04Self-Compassion — Dharma Talk by Tara Brach
    5. 05Rain of Compassion — Guided Meditation by Tara Brach
    6. 06Tonglen — Compassion Practice by Tara Brach
    1. The Voice of A Good Friend
    2. Self-Compassion Meditation
    3. Compassion Meditation
    4. Self-Compassion
    5. Rain of Compassion
    6. Tonglen

    About these downloads

    How does this audio series work?

    Each track is a short, self-contained guided meditation or reflection. You can listen straight through in order, or dip into a single track whenever you have a few minutes. Tap Download MP3 to save any track for offline listening on your phone, in the car, or anywhere quiet.

    Who is this for?

    For anyone who wants to slow down — beginners and longtime meditators alike. No prior practice is needed. Teachers, coaches, and therapists are also welcome to share these with clients and students as a gentle contemplative resource.

    How should I listen?

    Find a quiet moment, use headphones if you can, and let the silences do as much work as the words. There's no right way — listening on a walk, before sleep, or alongside the written reflections below all work beautifully.

    Can I save or share these?

    Yes — listening and downloading are always free for personal practice. Use the Download MP3 button on any track to keep a copy. You're also welcome to share the page link with anyone who might find it nourishing.

    Self-Compassion Mindfulness Exercise

    Regardless of our background, lived experience, goals and ambitions, or lot in life, many of us in the modern world suffer from a significant lack of self-compassion. We tend to be incredibly hard on ourselves, and frequently revert to self-judgment in the face of difficult circumstances. We question ourselves constantly, and hold ourselves to impossible standards. These behaviors are often destructive, and can be detrimental to our pursuit of a more mindful, spiritually enriched life. This mindfulness exercise for self-compassion will help you learn to practice self-compassion throughout your daily life.

    The Importance of Self-Compassion

    Many of us are health conscious, and we’ll spend countless hours each week attempting to improve our health. Whether it’s shopping for the right foods, cooking healthy meals, ensuring that we’re getting adequate exercise, or making an effort to get enough sleep, we engage in specific behaviors on a regular basis that are designed to promote our health and well-being.

    Believe it or not, practicing self-compassion is one of the best ways to improve your health, mood, sense of confidence, and ability to bounce back from traumatic events. Neglecting self-compassion is a mistake that many of us make; but, without self-love, we won’t be able to realize our full potential as human beings.

    Self Compassion Pause

    This mindfulness exercise will teach you pause throughout your day, taking moments here and there to practice self-compassion. When you’re experiencing a particularly challenging, stressful, or just plain difficult scenario, you’ll be asked to stop and breath. We often work actively to treat others with compassion, but how often do we do it for ourselves? This mindfulness exercise on self-compassion will help you treat yourself the way that you do others who are in need. You’ll learn to love yourself and provide support for yourself when you need it, and hold yourself to a more reasonable, less stressful standard from day to day.

    From the podcast

    A Moment of Self-Compassion, A Meditation with Sean Fargo

    8:26 · with Sean Fargo

    When we're going through difficult times, it's easy to think we're alone in our pain or that our hardships will never end.

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