Emotional Awareness Meditation

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    Sean FargoPublished February 18, 2016 · Updated March 28, 2024 · 2 min read

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    Meeting feelings with mindful presence

    Emotions are messengers, not problems to solve. “Emotional Awareness Meditation” is an opportunity to develop a kinder relationship with the full range of your inner life — the easy feelings and the difficult ones.

    How mindfulness can help

    Mindfulness teaches us to stay near our feelings without becoming overwhelmed by them. By turning toward what we feel — naming it, locating it in the body, breathing alongside it — emotion becomes information rather than instruction. We learn to hold our experience, rather than be held hostage by it.

    Gentle steps to try

    1. Name what is here. Quietly say to yourself, “This is sadness,” or “This is anger.” Naming brings the prefrontal cortex online and softens reactivity.
    2. Locate it in the body. Where do you feel this emotion most clearly? The throat, the chest, the belly? Rest your attention there with kindness.
    3. Breathe alongside it. Imagine your breath flowing into and around the sensation, neither pushing it away nor pulling it closer.
    4. Ask what it needs. Many feelings simply want to be witnessed. Some carry a request — for rest, for boundary, for repair. Listen.

    Feelings are not flaws. They are weather moving through the open sky of your awareness. Trust that no emotion, however intense, is the whole of who you are.

    Printable Worksheet

    Emotional Awareness Meditation

    PDF·174 KB

    A mindful companion to this worksheet

    Meeting feelings with mindful presence

    Emotions are messengers, not problems to solve. “Emotional Awareness Meditation” is an opportunity to develop a kinder relationship with the full range of your inner life — the easy feelings and the difficult ones.

    How mindfulness can help

    Mindfulness teaches us to stay near our feelings without becoming overwhelmed by them. By turning toward what we feel — naming it, locating it in the body, breathing alongside it — emotion becomes information rather than instruction. We learn to hold our experience, rather than be held hostage by it.

    Gentle steps to try

    1. Name what is here. Quietly say to yourself, “This is sadness,” or “This is anger.” Naming brings the prefrontal cortex online and softens reactivity.
    2. Locate it in the body. Where do you feel this emotion most clearly? The throat, the chest, the belly? Rest your attention there with kindness.
    3. Breathe alongside it. Imagine your breath flowing into and around the sensation, neither pushing it away nor pulling it closer.
    4. Ask what it needs. Many feelings simply want to be witnessed. Some carry a request — for rest, for boundary, for repair. Listen.

    Feelings are not flaws. They are weather moving through the open sky of your awareness. Trust that no emotion, however intense, is the whole of who you are.

    Emotional Awareness Meditation

    Mindfulness has the capacity to bring peace to our daily lives. When we engage in mindful practices, we can bring greater awareness, clarity, and equanimity to our day to day experiences. This leads to greater balance and less of the intense swings in mood that can throw us off kilter for days at a time.

    Perhaps nowhere is mindfulness more useful than in coming to understand our emotional states. Many people simply experience emotion, without ever coming to understand where the emotions themselves come from, what their purpose is, or how we might best handle them. Too often, we allow our emotions to overtake us: they get in the driver’s seat, so to speak, and we’re powerless to change course–even when we’re not happy with the direction we’re headed in.

    Mindfulness exercise for emotional awareness

    In this mindfulness exercise, you’ll focus on achieving greater equanimity when it comes to your emotions. By practicing this exercise, your emotions will cease to control you: you’ll be able to experience them in a more measured, thoughtful, and mindful way.

    It’s important to understand that we often fail to achieve direct contact with our emotions. We might think that we understand our emotional states because we can name them, but this is not the same as direct contact. Being in direct touch with your emotions means knowing where they originate in the body.

    When you practice getting in touch with your emotions directly, you stop worrying about the conceptual schemes surrounding them and focus instead on the way that you’re actively experiencing a given emotion in your physical being.

    Processing Emotions

    By letting go of the concepts surrounding our emotions, we’ll be able to process how we feel and let go quickly. When you’re able to let go of an emotional state, rather than holding onto it for hours, days, or even weeks, you’ll be free to experience your emotions without fear of them “taking control” of your life.

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