Identifying Personal Values

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    Nicole LannertonePublished December 2, 2015 · Updated March 28, 2024 · 2 min read

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    Living closer to what matters

    Values are the quiet compass beneath the noise of daily life. “Identifying Personal Values” asks you to listen for what you most want your life to express, and to notice where your hours and your values are quietly out of alignment.

    How mindfulness can help

    Mindfulness creates the inner stillness in which values become audible. When the wind of distraction settles, the deeper preferences of the heart can be heard. Practice helps us not only know our values, but live in closer relationship with them.

    Gentle steps to try

    1. Imagine the long view. Picture yourself ten years from now, looking back on this season. What would you hope was true about how you spent it?
    2. Choose three words. Pick three words that name what you most want to embody. Write them somewhere you'll see them daily.
    3. Audit one choice. Look at one decision on your plate this week. Which option moves you toward your three words?
    4. Forgive the gap. Notice the gap between values and behavior with curiosity, not judgment. The noticing itself is the practice.

    A meaningful life is built one small alignment at a time. The point is not to live perfectly by your values, but to keep returning to them.

    Personal Values Mindfulness Exercise

    Have you ever felt like you’re on autopilot in your day to day life? This feeling can present itself in many forms, and to varying degrees. You might feel like you’re not present while you’re at work, or like your mind is preoccupied when you’re spending time with family members. A mindfulness practice can help you overcome these feelings by increasing your sense of awareness, focus, and presence in your daily life.

    Sometimes, though, this “autopilot” feeling can start to creep into some of the big pictures aspects of who we are as people. We might find ourselves doing things that aren’t commensurate with who we want to be, and how we want to exist in the world. Indeed, we may at times feel like we’re unsure of what our core values are. Are we really aware of what we believe about the world? Are we acting on those beliefs?

    Increasing awareness of your values

    In this mindfulness exercise, you’ll be instructed on how to identify and assess your core personal values. To begin with, you’ll put together a list of the values and qualities that you identify with the most on a deep, internal level. Before attempting to do this, we’ll discuss what exactly we mean by “value,” and what it may mean to you.

    When working to identify your deepest values, you’ll be instructed to think in terms of where you derive your greatest sense of satisfaction, purpose, and meaning. These events, feelings, interactions, and habits can provide helpful clues and insight into what you value most.

    Incorporating your values into your life

    Once you’ve identified which values matter to you the most, you’ll receive guidance on how to incorporate these values in your day to day existence. This is easier said than done, but it’s achievable with intention, practice, and a desire to live according to your deepest beliefs. Think of this as an important step on your journey to live more mindfully.

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