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    Identifying Personal Values

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    Nicole LannertonePublished December 2, 2015 · Updated October 21, 2026 · 2 min read

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    Living closer to what matters

    Values are the quiet compass under the noise of daily life. “Identifying Personal Values” asks you to listen for what you most want your life to express, and to notice where your hours and your values have drifted apart.

    How mindfulness can help

    Mindfulness makes room for the stillness in which values become easier to hear. When the distraction settles, the deeper preferences of the heart get a word in. Practice helps us not only know our values but live closer to them.

    Gentle steps to try

    1. Take the long view. Picture yourself ten years from now looking back on this season. What would you hope was true about how you spent it?
    2. Choose three words. Pick three words for what you most want to embody. Write them somewhere you will see them daily.
    3. Check one choice. Look at one decision in front of you this week. Which option moves you toward your three words?
    4. Forgive the gap. Notice the gap between values and behavior with curiosity, not judgment. The noticing is the practice.

    A meaningful life is built one small alignment at a time. The point is not to live your values perfectly, but to keep returning to them.

    Personal Values Mindfulness Exercise

    Have you ever felt like you’re on autopilot in your day-to-day life? This feeling can present itself in many forms, and to varying degrees. You might feel like you’re not present while you’re at work, or like your mind is preoccupied when you’re spending time with family members. A mindfulness practice can help you overcome these feelings by increasing your sense of awareness, focus, and presence in your daily life.

    Sometimes, though, this “autopilot” feeling can start to creep into some of the big-picture aspects of who we are as people. We might find ourselves doing things that aren’t in line with who we want to be, and how we want to exist in the world. Indeed, we may at times feel like we’re unsure of what our core values are. Are we really aware of what we believe about the world? Are we acting on those beliefs?

    Increasing awareness of your values

    In this mindfulness exercise, you’ll learn how to identify and assess your core personal values. To begin with, you’ll put together a list of the values and qualities that you identify with the most on a deep, internal level. Before attempting to do this, we’ll discuss what exactly we mean by “value,” and what it may mean to you.

    When working to identify your deepest values, you’ll be invited to think about where you derive your greatest sense of satisfaction, purpose, and meaning. These events, feelings, interactions, and habits can provide helpful clues and insight into what you value most.

    Incorporating your values into your life

    Once you’ve identified which values matter to you the most, you’ll receive guidance on how to bring these values into your day-to-day life. This is easier said than done, but it’s achievable with intention, practice, and a desire to live according to your deepest beliefs. Think of this as one step toward living more mindfully.

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