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    Feeling Good About Supporting Others

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    Sean FargoPublished January 10, 2015 · Updated October 22, 2026 · 1 min read

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    Meeting feelings with mindful attention

    Emotions are information, not problems to solve. “Feeling Good About Supporting Others” is a chance to build a kinder relationship with the whole range of your inner life, the easy feelings and the hard ones.

    How mindfulness can help

    Mindfulness helps us stay close to a feeling without being swept away by it. Turning toward what we feel, naming it, finding it in the body, and breathing alongside it, often makes the emotion easier to hold. Over time we learn to have our experience rather than be run by it.

    Gentle steps to try

    1. Name what is here. Quietly say to yourself, “This is sadness,” or “This is anger.” Many people find that naming a feeling takes a little of the charge out of it.
    2. Find it in the body. Where do you feel this emotion most clearly? The throat, the chest, the belly? Let your attention rest there with kindness.
    3. Breathe alongside it. Imagine the breath moving into and around the sensation, neither pushing it away nor pulling it closer.
    4. Ask what it needs. Many feelings simply want to be noticed. Some carry a request, for rest, a boundary, or a repair. Listen for it.

    Feelings are not flaws. They are weather moving through, and no emotion, however strong, is the whole of who you are.

    A note from Sean

    It takes a big heart to care for other people. How many of us feel we need special permission to care for ourselves, too? I do. So please don’t forget yourself.

    Try this today. At the end of today, recall one way you supported someone at work: a quick answer, a listening ear, covering a task. Feel your chest and shoulders as you remember it. Answer question 3 honestly: why did you choose to help? Then do one small thing for yourself, such as a glass of water, three slow breaths, or a minute outside, and notice how that feels next to the memory.

    Keep going: How to Be A Mindful Leader and Nurturing Yourself While Serving Others, A Guided Meditation.

    This suits managers, caregivers, and teachers. If you are tired or resentful from giving, go gently. Stop when you need to.

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